Check every zodiac sign's love compatibility. Bring on the reservations, the candles, and the dimly lit cocktail bars, because Scorpio adores the glamour and intrigue that comes with first dates. To Scorpio wining and dining is an art, and they adore bringing their dates to places that make them feel like they've stumbled into an exotic country. To Scorpio, dating is all about letting go of the every day and getting lost in fantasy. It's common for water sign Scorpio to become downright obsessed with fire signs—the sign they aren't supposed to go for.
Fire signs Aries, Leo, Sagittarius speak to Scorpio's intense passion.
But while fire signs are all intense energy, Scorpio has a well of emotion underneath—when Scorpio gets mad, they stay mad, unlike fire signs who can get over it seconds later. Scorpio and fire signs both seem similar on the surface, but often have trouble speaking each other's language—fire signs communicate in actions, while Scorpio is all about emotion.
The result? Tons of mixed messages, followed by a fiery breakup, maybe a temporary reunion, and an even more intense final goodbye. But it can work! The trick is that each partner has to stop thinking their way is the "right" way, and stop trying to change their partner. Scorpio needs to step back and let some things roll off their back, and come up with coping mechanisms that don't involve the silent treatment.
Fire signs need to learn that emotions are real, even if you can't see them. And together, these signs can create some serious sparks. If you have your eye on a Scorpio, be ready to be rejected at least once. It's not you, it's their sign.
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But it can work! Mars is the ancient God of War, always charging forward — passionate, aggressive and courageous. By the same token, the children also need a passion and purpose independent from their parents. They contain and reveal the very best and the very worst of the human condition. The best thing you can do is be direct and tell him how you feel.
Be funny. Scorpio loves independent thinkers, and a sarcastic quip or comment will go a long way in their book. The less you worry about looking "cool," the better. Have your own life. Scorpio is not interested in a codependent relationship and shies away from someone who seems like they "need" a romance to seem complete. Having a full life of friends, family, and hobbies makes it clear you want them in your life. Own your intelligence. Scorpio has a soft spot for smarts, and loves when someone they like shows just how intelligent they are. Read the news, talk about books you've recently read, and strive to learn at least one new thing every day.
It will drive a Scorpio wild. Pluto is the higher octave of Mars and controls the power, destruction and rebirthing elements of the Scorpio-Scorpio relationship. These two planets together allow the Scorpion to bounce back after disappointments or tragic losses. Fortunately for the Scorpion, intense passions inflate the importance and loss of everything. Scorpio is a Water Sign, so their first instinct in love is to respond deeply, passionately, fervently, and if they decide to express themselves, its never done halfway.
Scorpios should commit themselves to this goal: Tame the vengeful or vindictive side of their intuitive personalities, and to celebrate the extreme ups and quickly forget the downs. A Scorpio must let go and really say what they want, what they feel, what they need, to their love mates. Pent-up emotions can become toxic, frustrating the one feeling them and confusing the one wondering about them.
Because both are so devoted, jealousy may become an issue. Be strong, brave Scorpios, and overcome this hurdle together!
Scorpio is a Fixed Sign. If they see each other as adversaries, they will sting each other for victory, meaning they will do whatever it takes to win. If they distance themselves from a situation, they might realize that none of them actually endangers the other.
To find mutual understanding, they need to lead separate lives and give each other enough room to do so. This makes representatives of this sign turned to the dark emotional issues and this is something they will both understand in each other. This could lead to numerous conflicts, but it could also be the base for incredible personal evolution of each partner, and an opportunity to be with someone who truly understands the depth of their hearts.
The best way for them to approach this relationship is through deepest emotional acceptance and the tolerance for incredible difference in character, even though they are, strangely, the same. The problem with things they value is in the illusion of value they both share. They will value rationality and emotional maturity, but those are things none of them can actually deliver all the time. They do value similar things, but they are not entirely rational or realistic in their choices.
This makes them susceptible to judging their own reflection in one another. Again, this is about the balance they both seek, needing a partner of opposite character and choices.
Even though they will feel sad and dried out most of the time, as two members of fixed quality, they could hold on to each other for a long time. The more time they spend together, the less energy they might have, for there is a silent, inner battle in both of them that drains it out of their systems. Scorpio and Scorpio have this tendency to bring out the worst in each other.
Even though they can share the deepest understanding known to the entire zodiac, they can also get too dark and depressed together, sinking into their pool of unresolved emotions.